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Perhaps you’re curious what the last week of school was like in the olden days.

That’s pretty easy. At the Damsel’s school, we went to class. Yup. Right up to the bitter end. The Damsel has noticed a great deal of the opposite going on lately. In one of her sprog’s classes, there was nothing grade-related going on during the last two weeks. Books were turned in, grades figured. The teacher turned on videos, but most of the students didn’t bother to show up.

In the olden days, we did have field day on the last day of elementary school, which consisted of mostly races of different sorts. The most memorable part for the Damsel was that this was the one and only day she was allowed to wear pants to school. Oh, and she recalls that she never, ever won any of those races…and back in those golden times, there were winners and losers, and no trophies for “participation.”

We also received our report cards on the last day of school, with the “cruel” sort of grades they used to use: A, B, C, D, F. On the bottom of the report card the teacher wrote whether you were being promoted to the next grade or not, in a neat little square box.

There was no such thing as elementary school graduations, and especially no preschool graduations. Actually, the Damsel didn’t know anyone who went to preschool.

In junior high and high school, the last day of school was Yearbook Signing. Unlike at the sprogs’ school, EVERYONE came for this and stayed all day.

The Damsel can’t remember her parents coming to any last-week-of-school activities except her high school graduation. But don’t feel sorry for her. There weren’t any other parents there either, so she didn’t feel left out. It’s different now, of course. The parents seem as busy as the kids.

Now, the Damsel isn’t saying the old ways were better. She’s just making the observation. And never mind about whether she herself is caught up in last-week-of-school craziness. She barely has time to write this post because, err, well, uh, she’s busy.

  • Jenny P.

    Know what’s bugging me lately? The high school here in my small town doesn’t allow the seniors to wear their honor cords. Got a gold cord for being in honor society? Who cares?! Red cord for working in health sciences? Doesn’t matter. NO ONE GETS TO WEAR THEIR CORDS TO GRADUATION. Why? Because the principal wants everyone to feel important and honor cords might make the students who don’t have any feel bad. 

    Oh my holy heck, do I have a word to say to this principal… what are we trying to teach these kids?! I could go on and on and on, and I might… but I think I’ll save it for my own post. :)

    • Anonymous

      whuuuuut. In my opinion that is RIDICULOUS. GRRRRR.

    • Lorene Nance

      Oh my word, that IS ridiculous! So frustrating for students who work hard. And, at my high school, the kids who didn’t wear cords just plain and simple didn’t care! Half of the kids were just happy to be graduating anyway…

  • http://gomexicoguide.com Laura

    Some of my favorite junior high and high school memories come from yearbook signing days and end of the year field days. I would show up every day right up until the end of the year just to be around my friends, but that was before cell phones, text messages and Facebook. I guess a lot has changed in a relatively short amount of time. ;-)

    • Anonymous

      Today (the day before the last day of school here) my ninth grader is at the local amusement park! School sanctioned!

  • Anonymous

    I love you, Damsel, for not making me feel like I am losing my mind. As a high school math teacher we have the kids working up until the very last SECOND in preparation for the end of year high stakes exams. The students claim this is “unfair.” When teaching seniors who took their exams in May instead of June I was actually told by parents that their children “deserved a break before college.” Break? What break? Were they given a break before they went to college? Did they *SNAP* under the pressure because they were *only* given the entire summer vacation to relax??

    Hilarity. 

    In the US our students do not rank in the tops in any subject matter when compared to other countries, but when level of confidence is measured Americans lead the pack! We are raised to believe we are amazing already and we don’t need to work to earn our place in the world. Something is skewed here… something is not adding up… and that’s coming from a math-chick.

    *rant ends*

    Ahem… Let me, um, grab my box here. What was that? Yes, yes, Damsel, it IS a soap-box, in fact. I will…er… um… take it with me. No need for anyone to trip over it. Apologies for the explosion of educational emotion on your beautiful blog space. :)

    • Anonymous

      Hey, I’m glad to know some kids are still in “school” up to the last. Thanks for doing the tough job–teaching math. Hats off to you.

  • http://twitter.com/DrJulie_Ann Julie-Ann McFann

    It’s not just me! *whew!*  I just thought I was just being a grumpy old education professor griping about how things were “back in MY day!”  I hate to admit it…but 20 years ago, I was encouraging my teacher-ed-students to help build their students’ confidence (by helping them find stuff they were good at doing) because research was showing that there was a positive relationship between self-esteem and student success.  But then the whole self-esteem movement careened out of control and people forgot that self-esteem is related to actual achievement.  Now those kids are in colleges and trying to get jobs and have a total entitlement attitude.  They have fits that they are actually expected to show up to class and do their work…and they might earn a “C” in the course.

    And another thing!! 

    Oops, I seem to have climbed up on that  soap box that wasn’t being used…*cough*

    • Anonymous

      Hey, since we’re both retro fans, would you consider doing a guest post on the Old School blog? Think it over.

      • http://twitter.com/DrJulie_Ann Julie-Ann McFann

        *chuckle*  I was about to ask you the same thing (about guest posting on Modern Retro Woman, that is).  I’d be honored to do a guest post on Old School.  Thanks for asking!

        • Anonymous

          Yay! I’d love for you to either write something new, or you can use something you’ve already posted on MRW. Think about what you think would fit the Old School best. I’m excited! And, I’d be honored to guest on yours in return.

  • Kristl Story

    I think the only thing that has remained the same…everyone is thrilled when school is out!  stumbled.

  • Brenda Sills

    Love, love, love the photo! I have a collection of old photos and I really enjoyed this one. I also enjoyed reading your post. Thanks for sharing! :D

  • http://inspiredcoincidences.com Em{Inspired Coincidences}

    I teach piano lessons and my students always come right from school to their lesson. The past week I’ve been asking all of them if they have a lot of homework (so I don’t assign them too many things) and they all say “nope, we’re just having parties and watching movies.” It’s weird to me! I’m glad I’m not the only one who has made the observation, thanks for your post!
    stopping by from MMB’s Post of the Week =)

    • Anonymous

      I’m a piano teacher too. Rock solid!

  • Diane J.

    I kind of miss the old days. My teen will be turning in work for another week. The last three days of school will be turning in books (apparently, it’s a long process – yes, I’m being completely sarcastic) and for a few lucky students, they can use the time to turn in missing assignments.

    In the elementary school my twin munchkins are having assemblies, field days, BBQ’s, Rocket launches (the fifth graders make rockets and get to launch them, all the other classes come out to watch) and videos.

    The youngest set will bring home report cards with grades of a 1, 2, or 3. The oldest will bring home grades of A, B, C, NTY, or I (NTY means Not There Yet, and I means incomplete). Apparently, F is negative. Uh-huh, so five years from now, I, Z, L, M will all be negative, too. Sooner or later every letter will be negative and they’ll be forced to return to the A, B, C, D, F.

    Wow, guess, I had a bit of a tirade there.

    Love the picture and I would be thrilled to see your guest post on both blogs!

    • Anonymous

      It’s crazy, I’m telling ya!

      I got an O+ on this post, lol.